Someone asked me today what I absolutely hated. I had a long think and eventually I seriously could not answer that. There are lots of things I dislike, but hate, that's too strong a word. The things I dislike I can either ignore, get over or I have no real control over them.
To me it's all about choices. I dislike reality shows, so I choose not to watch them. I dislike being outdrawn, I choose to get over it. I dislike poverty in the world, I have no real control but I have a choice and I choose to, rather than ignore this, I choose to donate to what I feel are worthwhile charities. Does that help the situation, I hope it does in a small way.
Hate can burn you up and take you over. It"s a small word with big repercussions. Some forums bristle with it, vitriol pours from every page, I choose not to frequent those forums. I like to think that this forum will never reach that stage.