try and make good decisions pre-flop should be what your doing,not calling oop against a solid type utg just because of odds.Start trying to put your opponents on a range of hands before u call for starters.A basic straight forward solid players utg range like u describe would look like 99+ AJo+s+ at worst mostly and your stack size is to low for speculative play.You are calling with a hand that is dominated by most of his range,if u feel u had to call a solid players utg raise then do it with suited connectors like 89ss for example and a slightly larger stack
When u analyse hands/situations before,during and after the event try to play the possible hands as if they were all face up and make the best play that way.
As played why shove? to make a solid player fold AA no spade or KK no spade or AQo or even AsQx is a big mistake imo which by this type with the stack size he has, it is more than likely he will not fold to a shove on the flop by you if he holds the ace or king of spades..
Lets say his range was as above 99+ AJo+s+ and we"ll discount TT and QQ as unlikely because u hold QTo , if u bet he will fold 99 [even a 9x9spade] i disagree that he would fold JsJx [given stacks and pot size] this leaves AA KK JJ AK AQ AJ as his range that we are up against , thats 66 combos 45 of which we are beating and he"d be making a mistake to call your 1/2 pot bet with and if he calls this sets up a pot size bet on the turn for you!!!!! if he re-raises yippee....
18 combos we are flipping,if he makes the mistake of only calling these and not re-raising,, again you have more FE on the turn.Lastly there are only 3 combos which u are crushed by and its c"est la vie .......... :"(
hope this gets u thinking/looking at situations differently....
I have started calling certain hands in certain circumstances and trying to make good decisions after the flop - in this circumstance if I hit the flop I can move in and take it from the initial raiser, if I miss I can get out of the way - It"s just that I "hit it ugly" here
its good to try new things but try to choose your opponents a bit better [eg - seen them fold post flop] and try to adjust to your stack and your opponent stacks/tendencies better.