I can find the fold here on a good day (I would also have some days where I shove, these are bad days). I probably call far too often in this spot in real life.
I will have folded the best hand quite often but it is not that great of a spot (if the raise was 2.5 I change my opinion quite a lot). Certainly would not consider it overly nitty (it"s a bit nitty but not that bad). I have done it with JJ and AK at live APAT events in fact when I did not like the spots, yes to a single raise.
I think we are not giving him enough credit for the 3.5x raise as this normally means strength (unless we have seen him doing this before but I am assuming his previous raises have been normal size). It"s also an EP raise. It"s not profitable to set mine.
If you call what flop are you hoping to see? Why are we calling? We seem to be calling as we have a pair of tens do we think they are ahead of our opponents range? What is our opponents range when he raises more than normal?
I really don"t like this spot with TT. 100BB deep I am set mining all day long and expect to make money.