very interesting discussion , not sure where i stand on it but im guessing if ive called you ive paid to see your cards then I guess its only right to show them.
Although I used this expression, it"s actually misleading. What I"ve done is paid to see if my hand beats the Villains.
If the villain chooses not to show me his cards and surrender the pot, I"m not bothered about what he had.
That said, I"m of the opinion, as I posted before, that all cards should be turned over at showdown. I didn"t before I started live poker but once you get involved in a few, "Show first"; "No, you first" arguments that hold up everything for minutes on end, you soon change your mind.
Of course, I"m old and don"t have that much time left.